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Hahah, Nice! I had to look up Pon Farr. You are a bigger Treky than me!

Catfish is a term used oftentimes for gay guys who are pretending to be hot girls so they can talk to straight guys. It doesn't have to be a gay guy but a lot of times it is. Basically just deceiving the person and talking to them online with someone else's pictures.

Just the other day I was talking to a catfish who stole some girls pictures and also created an Instagram account as well. We get to exchanging phone numbers and unannounced the gay catfish sends a side shot of themselves with no pants on pretending to be a girl who is bootylicious.

Needless to say I was like WTF!!???!!!!

You should maybe try Bumble and Coffee Meets Bagel if you felt that Tinder was too wolf packy.
With Bumble the women contact the matches first and with Coffee Meets Bagel you only get served up a few potential matches each day. It seems to be a more sophisticated bunch. Like here it will be a lot of successful women and there is a general notion that it is more for serious relationships.