My wife is very annoying. I occasionally may sometimes annoy her too. Part of the reason for this is that we know each other well. We know exactly how to get under the others skin.
Recently, she joined Steemit. This is a worry for me. I have tried to mentally go back and think of all the things I have said about her to evaluate how much trouble I am in.
Seven day edit lockout, stupid forever blockchain...
I am actually quite interested to see how this goes. I think it is rare these days to get such an intimate look at a partners thoughts and it is strange that the entire world is privy to them also.
I have said before how I see the feed as the personality of the poster and I wonder what my wife's feed will tell me in time. Will it match up with my own experiences with her, will she hold back her mind or will it be freeing for her and she will shine ever brighter?
She was very hesitant to join but last night when she was posting I saw it. A chuckle here and a smile there as she wrote her post for the day. Writing this kind of stuff has the tendency to bring experiences up. Memories forgotten, moments lost in the receses of the mind.
When I saw her smile last night, I knew that there was hope. I knew that she has the opportunity to experience what I have through Steemit.
I have learned more about myself while writing here over the last few months than previous years of self-reflection. Well, this is self-reflection I think. It is an exploration of all that I am in many ways and one that will delve deep into experience, feelings and discovery of what could be.
When I saw her smile I knew she was accessing a part of her that she was not expecting to tap into while posting an article to strangers. When I saw her smile I could see that she was enjoying something she did not expect she would. When I saw her smile I could see that she was discovering a part of her she didn't know existed.
As she smiled, it reminded me of the first times we were together, before we annoyed each other as much, and she would laugh at the silly things I would say.
I feel that through Steemit, we will actually get to know each other in a different way. A deeper and broader view of who each of us is as an individual and hopefully it will bring us closer together as a couple. I think we will both share different views of raising our daughter and our shared experiences. Different perspectives of the same.
I have no expectations of where her feed will lead but I think it will be an interesting path of growth. I think that in time, she will be confortable enough to let her mind wander and her brilliance shine and others will see what I see inside of her already.
I look forward to our journey together.
If you are interested to join us also: @momone
Taraz
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momones so close to you, one never know for sure toward Which side to paddle at a given moment. LoLHahaha my dear friend @tarazkp, I just hope you won't find this experience might turns out into a fierce Arm Wrestling to keep along with the usual wedlock challenges. You know.. dealing with deary, favorite and dedicated
Damn! I can't remember now from where did I take this picture. I think it was from some steemian article months ago. I just hope he/her is happy to see his/her image shared & displayed under the unbelievable exposure provided by your splendid posts. ;)
I am more worried you will woo her away with your sweet prose
LoL, well, you know old extravagant gandalfs always have some charms hidden under their pink sleeves all the time. }:)
@tarazkp :) Thank you for sharing your story with us , your wife sounds just like me in everyway . I used to set around the house questioning my life everyday , never felt I was good at anything and just brought everyone down around me :) One day my husband watched a video on youtube about steemit and believed in me so much he told me about it . been here for a week now . and I am the same as your wife as far as steemit really brought out the brightness and joy from me again. Now I am back to writing my stories and poetry which I stopped doing 6 years ago ..
I prefer it to be about you. That is all that has value to me if you know what I mean. The beauty of Steemit is being able to explore ourselves and share the experience for all to learn from and enjoy. That is what makes it so great.
There is a huge amount of value here, even if it never turns into dollars.
I fully agree . I am not about the money :) The wonderful experiences and meeting lots of Awesome people and able to share my passion with everyone is worth my time :) I am following you :) can you send me your wifes info ? so I can also follow her :) Thank you :)
It is definitely enjoyable. So many talented people here and I have a feeling that many did not get their talents seen in the walking world. It is great that this is becoming a thing and people can explore their passions deeply.
She is @momone
Thank you , I am now following your wife as well :)
I know how to wind my hubby up too and he knows what makes me bite, it usually doesn't blow into much but sometimes things get a bit out of hand making me want to punch him lol thankfully he is n good with a keyboard so won't be joining here :)
:) It is all about boundaries.
Enjoy your posts : )