What do you mean "if you ever make it back to steemit" :< Oh well there's busy and mspsteem and chainbb if you don't make it back to steemit ;D
I remember wedding prep (there was a pregnancy involved which made things more...uh..."entertaining" so you're timing things much better than we did ;D), totally understand that you're going to be even more under the pump and that this thing might fall by the wayside especially when the wedding part is done and you're off honeymooning and by that stage pretty much need a break from all the things anyway. But we'll be around when you're right to come back :)
You have so lived with other people, your family is people right? XD
Advice eh, well um for the wedding try not to stress too much (lol), no matter what happens everything will be perfect on the day because in the end all that matters are the people immediately involved.
For actual married life, well it's pretty easy. Eventually that crazy intensity will subside (it does come back in often random bouts) and you'll have a nice comfortable sustainable long term low level love replacing it. Beyond that it's mostly logistics of how you're going to organise money and who's doing what chores and then getting used to the other one's level of tolerance for mess XD
I'm replying now so obviously I came back... for now :/ Still trying to find my legs though, this all feels so strange after being away for so long. Much like my hiatus during my earlier days. I'm going to try and find a new routine given everything.
The wedding went by great, if a blur for Li and I. Everyone who attended had nothing but high praise for everything, so that was a relief. We're still in the honeymoon phase so everything's been swell, but it still takes a lot of getting used to haha Since we're living in Li's old house though, I've had the short straw when it comes to decisions, so I can't wait to move to a place we share 50-50 haha!
Yay you're back :D Even if it is just "for now". There are always going to be new routines because stuff always changes. You'll get into the swing of something now and then one of you will start a new job or you'll feel right for kids and then everything will change again. Such is life XD Just have fun with this :)
You're probably right, mate. I'll just learn to roll with it :D