Each time a Nigerian tells you there is money in this business, it is because he will rise by you joining. Check anything advertised even to your house as business opportunity, it's in their interest.
The only time you get us to help is only at DYING POINT. The average Nigerian can give or do anything to save a life but NEVER TO GROW ONE. We can spend millions to bury a relation that never ate our ten thousand naira.
We are just Afraid of growing people.
We are scared of multiplying success.
We feel if they stand, we will lose control.
It happens in our secular, family and RELIGIOUS life. We give at worst to save or boast ego. We give to be applauded. We never grow men.
We love worship.
We love to be served.
We enjoy being treated as gods.
Even those we grow, the day we felt threatened, We scheme ways to crumble them. Every thing must grow, revolve and be sustained around us.
We are the god Father's.
We are the sole capons.
We are the mafian managers.
We are Nigerians. But a kingdom is being birth. It's that of CHRIST where only HIM is King and glorified.
Oneness is being birth. One Lord, faith and baptism. Men will be raised and empowered. Self and ill motive will fade. Love will be endless. It is God's life in us.
Men will be up and doing. Ideas and creativity will flow. Laziness will die. Giving will be a competition as none will want to receive but all will be eager to bless. I see a breed that is Spirit led and people oriented. It will be no longer about Me but about Us. It's no more about MY CHURCH but THE CHURCH AND THE MINISTRY OF CHRIST.
This phase of oneness will infiltrate government and politics. The kingdom of this world will be that of our God.
What am I writing sef? Who send me?
Boredom no good. Enjoy your day.
You have a point, but unfortunately, nigerian will never believe you are helping them until money get unvolve, I have a diverse experience from mentee, business partner, family, neighbours, relatives, families etc.
Naturally, I enjoy peace of mind anytime I am able to offer helping hand and more when I see people being bless with what I taught them or information I made available to them, but seriously, 90% will look down on you if you are trying to develop them rather than giving them money.
This year I have lots of experience on this. We all need help, but I have what many people have, that is ability to guide, motivate and mentor.
If you read some of my post, you may find some details there. Although your point is right because 90% will only offer helping hand when there is something in it for them or at die minute when it may have being too late but people in need of help too think otherwise. You help is not needed if it is not material. The instant gratification syndrome.