We all want to be free....
We all want to do whatever we want in our lives without others’ judgment...
But we are not all willing to bear the cost of freedom....
From an early age,we feel the need for freedom...in adolescence,this need is usually culminating,and then,in adulthood,we are faced with the cost of freedom.
And this is the point where, some people are “doing one step back”,others just...compromise, and few are the ones who dare to pay the price.
The one,unique and indispensable term for doing what we want in our lives is:
To be willing to take full responsibility of the consequences of our actions!
The biggest problem today is not people who are compatible with freedom.Their decision is fully respected and honest.
The problem is people who want to enjoy freedom,without taking on the responsibility of the consequences of their actions.
It is them...who slander, but when they get to court they get everything back.Those who..when they win,they lift the cup alone like nobody else contributed, but when they lose they are looking to whom they will drop the blame.
This is what it means to be willing to take responsibility for your life.To be willing to accept your successes, your accomplishments, whatever is good in your life.
At the same time though you should say: "I am the only one who is responsible for my failures, for the people I might have hurt and for what has been wrong".
Measure your choices and decisions, and think:"Am I prepared to pay the price”?
To claim every praise and reward for my deeds, and not to hesitate for a moment to take on all the consequences that I am responsible for?
To be able to admit your mistakes before others’indications... Be willing to pay the price without any discount, no hesitation, no excuses.
Because that's the only way you can claim everything in life.
Only in this way will you be able to say "I claim everything that I deserve" without any deduction, guilt, apology or compromise.
Freedom requires not to be afraid of mistakes, failure, loss, backwardness.
These situations are inextricably linked with freedom.
Anyone who is afraid to make enemies will never make strong friends...they say
But it also presupposes that you do not gamble with “freedom”. Decide in full awareness of your actions!
Because very simply, anyone who only wants to enjoy the benefits of freedom without paying the price,he just does not have the right to be free.
Thanks for stopping by
Until next time...
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Hi fellow traveller! Great write up and hit the nail on the head with the "phycology" of taking freedom!
Love it.
I am glad you liked it and for visiting my blog!
And of course for your kind words
Since you liked it...means we share same ideas!
oh yes, i was interested in the username even straight away! great to meet you what country are you in?
Catchy name :P
I am from Greece!
I can relate to a-lot of thought provoking moments that your post has touched on and i too have things in my life that give me a flight or fight moment. I think i get this from my mother as she was and still is searching for that one thing in her life that will set her free from her shackles that only she created herself. You could say it hereditary.
Thing is my mother did teach me one thing and that was to never live my life with regret like she has.
So take hold of what you have and make it better, don't just dismiss something and try to get away from it because at the end of the day it's only you that can change the direction of your life not life itself.
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Many want to be free but they are not ready to pay the price for being free. When responsibilities surface , they tend to run away or try to shift it to another. Let's be ready to take responsibilities as it is one of the major things to do while being free.
Great post :) keep it up!
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Be responsible with your words and actions. Freedom is an illusion. We are still bound by certain things to protect us from destroying ourselves and others.
I could say you are talking of gaining freedom from our ego that wants all good results for itself and for all bad blame the others...Unfortunately we still live in Platon's cave !
Then it is our ego that we should deal with....
From birth to death ....
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