This seems like the perfect place! Why have I not found you before? I'm rubbish at navigating, sorry.
I'm going to check you guys out though. I think your groups will help in what I have planned and an amalgamation would be awesome if you're up for it?
We absolutely are up for it! As for not finding us sooner, we only opened our "ports" about a month ago but the response has been...breathtaking. I think there's just been a real desire for a place like what you described: Constructive but not mean. And we've worked to be such a place. Look forward to seeing you there!