More than a thousand times in one's lifetime, he is pushed against himself to do what may seem as discomforting rather than comfortable one.
We most think the process if painless and easy hence, we seek to easy way out. We do not want to allow the first time become the hardest, which should be the case.
We follow our hearts and allow a sick conviction that we are getting better at being ourselves in fear.
The rogue route is one very familiar one we know and we get the right to following through because it is easy and has been laid out that way.
Don't take the rogue route even if it glitters. Try the route that offer nothing and you will be glad you did.