And if we want to return to the law
nature, we should be more
listen more than talk.
Did not God give us two
ears and only one mouth? :-)

Likewise if we see the baby
the newborn. the sense of hearing works first
than others. Then, why hear more difficult than talk?

Although the invisible to hear is easy, but in fact
many people prefer to be heard instead of listening.
Listening is part of the essence
which determines effective communication.
Without good listening skills,
usually there will be many problems.

That often happens, we feel that we are the right ones.
We do not interested in listening to that different opinion and just depends on the our way.

Always feel right, most competent,
and never made a mistake.

If we always feel that ourselves
right, and our way is the most
right, that means we never listen.

Our ideas and opinions are very difficult to
changed if facts do not support
our beliefs. Even if there is a fact
even we may just be just glanced at it.

Maybe this time we are comfortable with
our way, but for the duration of time
long, people will refuse and
hate us.

If we want to start listening others,
then someday we will aware of our mistakes.
Answer to overcome this trait is honing active listening skill.

Hear not always with lid mouth,
but also involving participation active us.
Hearing good is not it hoping for a turn to speak.

Hearing is a commitment to understand the conversation and feelings of the opponent talk us.
It is also a form appreciate that what others are talking is helpful to us.
At the same time we can too take maximum benefit from the talks.

The art of hearing can build a relationship.
If we do well, people will be interested with us Ans our interactions will be more harmonious.

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