Wow dear, that's some excellent advice. Lets see, why don't I just kill myself? Well, number one - as much as my family drives me crazy, I wouldn't trade them for anything in the whole wide world. I certainly would not put them through that kind of pain. And before you begin to ask yourself how I would even know what that feels like; my father committed suicide when I was 18 years old - so I do know what that does to a child and I would never do that to my children. So maybe you think your little innocuous statement was just that, or maybe you think that you were being funny - I can assure you, however, that it was not.