Women can't live with them, can't live without them!

in #women7 years ago (edited)

I really despise this phrase. It implies you exist only to serve.

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NOT!

I am a far cry from being a feminazi or a "pink pussy hatter" believe me!

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But...I see it on here all the time. Women cater to their male followers while ignoring the intellectual replies given by their female followers. It's a shame, many women here have brilliant and expressive minds.

So what is this really about?
Are women so desperate for the approval of their male readers they close their eyes to other women to whom they might make a connection or share a common interest. WHY?

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Most likely, that female follower is interested in what your blog is about or likes what you have to say on a particular subject. So what exactly are you thinking or should I say what exactly are you afraid of? Give her an upvote and add a comment. She relates to you and wishes to engage you!

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Reply in a pleasant manner. Chances are she could be your one of your biggest supporters. Stop ignoring the other 50% of the human race. The woman you never gave an up-vote or a few cents might just think you hung the moon.

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If you have a talent, be a mentor and reach out. There are so many intelligent and articulate women on steemit. Have enough confidence in your content and believe it might appeal to everyone-female or male. This will most certainly benefit the community as a whole. Just be yourself.

It's pretty obvious when you are just chasing a bone. I mean really obvious.

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Can't figure out who you are? Just go back through your posts and see who you up voted. Just my opinion, but I think you already know!

As men evolved through the ages they learned to stick together working in teams for their own betterment and common good. Realizing with each victory that by behaving as a cohesive unit and by employing individual talents they would become more influential.

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great photos, nice post.

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Woohoo, @mother2chicks, well spoken for the sisterhood! Amazing how the platform reflects our interactions in real life. Mansplaining, manterrupting and other ways of keeping our voices quiet - if we, that 51%, work together to help each other be heard, it will be harder for others to silence us 😊😊

Ellie Mae never put up with any of Jethro's shenanigans. She would chase him around until he cried uncle. We have so many talented a smart women on this platform. I just hate to see women sell themselves short when we have some legitimate personal insights that could benefit all users here on steemit. @battleaxe has started a group for women called the mermaid brigade. Check out her blog if you are interested. 🐓🐓

That's true - Ellie Mae was a toughie. So's her namesake 😃. @battleaxe's initiative sounds interesting - thanks, will check it out!😊😊

Great post ....very empowering

Thank you so much for commenting, glad you stopped by🐓

I had no idea this was even going on. I get so many great comments and replies from men, granted it's from a small core tribe, but I've never personally felt this here on steemit. Will keep an eye out for it now.

Thanks for stopping by to visit. There are a plenty of women on here that focus on their male followers, completely neglecting the women that comment or upvote. Don't get me wrong I love my men followers too. It should be some of both.🐓🐓