Hey sorry for the late reply, I've been working all weekend.
I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on this point. I'm all for positive visualizations and could get behind 'I will be' or 'I can be' as positive phrases or signals to send out into the universe. I understand how your theory works and combined with meditative exercises I'm sure it can work but I think with many people reinforcing something which is not a reality can be dangerous.

(I will give your theory a go though as it would be rude of me not too, hopefully it will help my Lent fitness attempts in a weeks time)