GOOD LUCK. That's what one needs the most. !LOLZ.

Yeah! I have seen this happening people ruin their day becsuse of someone who doesn't really care for them. Instead of enjoying the day the focus gets shifted to why the bla bla relatives did or say bla bla.
The day of marriage comes only ones and it should be made memorable.

Memories are created by emotions of heart not by the outwardly decorations and celebrations. A marriage without many guests and decorations can be more beautiful if the love birds know how to feel the best.

As you have said, the wedding day is like a pre game. There is a whole lot of unknown is yet to come. Before marraige is better to preapre your mind for dealing that. Patience, compassion and kindness are the important traits to learn for heading towards marriage.