The people you love will never love you. An irony of life and a pain to every human soul. Tends to be that the people we love are always the ones that actually hurt us more than expected. Our feels and genuine emotions means nothing to them
The people you love will never love you. An irony of life and a pain to every human soul. Tends to be that the people we love are always the ones that actually hurt us more than expected. Our feels and genuine emotions means nothing to them
I think that is the baseline for every relationship. I love my husband to the moon and back and I know he does as well. But nobody can hurt me like he does, because the hurt I feel comes from me and how I feel kind of rejected in the moment. I think it is about two side to a coin? That’s my personal take of course ☺️
Oh yes yes. You are so right. But in a way, i would say you are lucky and your feels of being rejected when you are hurt is normal. I totally agree with you. But in the world we find ourselves today, let’s regard it to friendship, I personaly find out that people i so much care for and show so much concerns for to rooting for them are always the ones that doesn’t even care about me A inch. I most times always feel used, depressed and sad most especially when I need them to hear me but I’m so unheard. It hurts really.
But to you that have good companionship in marriage, I feel you are really so lucky as you have scaled through a stage of saying you are looking for a person or friend to share ideas or opinions with. It’s always crazy trust me.
It affects me each time and I have been trying to deduce a way I can handle that emotions and feels because I feel so confused about it. Either to stop caring and showing concern or I just do what I need to do and just ignore I ever did….. it’s striking so confusing 🫤 😢
Oh but that part I totally can understand. In friendship I’m the one who gives all and never gets anything back. I will give you a stupid example that hurt like hell. My friend called me to come and help to clean her house, which I did of course because it’s me. It was for a party that night where I wasn’t invited. It was full house there and they had a great time.
That is the friend who died who did that to me, but to be honest.. all the people who partied at her house weren’t anywhere when she got sick and the moment she passed.
Do I feel used sometimes? Yes I do. But I can say I’m at peace with who I am now. I can look in the mirror without regret and I couldn’t put less love in the world because if I wanted to. That is my personal idea about it of course
Wow 😮 I get this so well. The example you just made just cleared the air and made things better. I feel relieved and calm to get this response. And I would say that from this that obviously this is how the world is. We just perhaps need to be ourselves, do what we have to do and leave the rest.
Thank you so much for this amazing response. I have learnt some things to help me positively there ❤️
I’m glad it helped in any way ❤️
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Sad reality of life. Sometimes the people we love, love us even more....surround yourself with genuine people ❤️
Mhmm, i wish I can see one someday. Not the ones that will always come with conditions
It will only take time but you will see
Hopefully
Self love is the only love with meaning.
So true love