Am typing this base on experience.......
Possibly by most promising youths.
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There is an african proverbs that reads;WHEN THERE IS NO ENEMY WITHIN,THE ENEMY OUTSIDE CAN DO YOU NO HARM.
When you refuse to allow any doubts in your own mind,then no doubt from others can CLOUD your judgements.When you create a strong mind,there can be no other that can defeat you with their words or with their judgements.When you Believe in YOU,you need no other(s) to Believe in you.Wana know why??.Because, others really have no say in WHO YOU WILL BECOME.Only you,have that say.only you get to make that call.only you can decide if others opinion become a reality in your life or you create your own FATE.
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The greatest CHALLENGE and the greatest OBSTACLE any human can face is their own DOUBTS....their own FEARS and their own CONDITIONED THOUGHTS.If you want to live your dream,you have to fight for it.you will have to fight the greatest battle Of your life.you will have to battle the ;
1)EXTERNAL ENEMY:people Who do you wrong .people Who dont Believe in YOU.
2)INTIMATE ENEMEY:Those close to you who might do you wrong(friends)or maybe don't Believe in you.Those who wants the best for you ,but their idea of support is to remind you of what can't be done or shouldn't be attempted.
BUT THE WORST OF ALL....
3)THE INTERNAL ENEMY:you will have to battle what seems like an army in your own head;an army of doubts.Fear of failure. Fear of judgement. Lack of Believe. The voices inside the head saying;
Am not good enough.
Am not worthy.
I want to do this but i cant.
I want to GIVE to those i love (my family) but i can't.
Am not worthy of love.
I will never be able to do this.
I am HOPELESS
I have tried EVERYTHING!.
The world is against me.
No one believes in me.
My ......life ......is....not....worth living.
There is no GREATER pain that could be inflicted in you Than your own internal enemy.
Your own thoughts will cause you THE GREATEST PAIN and more pain Than anyone or Anything.
The could be likened to a terrorist living in your soul.
Guess what....i just realized (I hope you do from this words too)that when you learn to control and direct your mindset,you can direct that internal Voice to work for you rather than AGAINST you .Someone asking HOW??. You get it to work for you by creating a COMPELLING FUTURE (trust me everyone needs a compelling future).A future you will be proud to achieve.proud to live in.
You do this by not just Having goals ,but Having meaningful goals.
Goals that gets you excited to wake up every morning.
You do this by understanding what your PURPOSE IN LIFE IS.
you do this by asking yourself;WHAT ARE YOU DOING IT ALL FOR???.
When you know this things(by answering that question),when you work on yourself DAILY,you can feel good enough, because whoever you are out there,Nomatter what you have been through OR going through, I WANT YOU TO KNOW YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH.But mind you,it does take commitments.A commitment of DAILY practice to work on yourself .Cut out something that you spend a lot of time on that does ABSOLUTELY nothing good in your life(Relationships,sex,party,wrong company,people who dont value your time)and replace it with daily work on you.
Empower yourself!.
Have a bearing in life ...positively.
Be inspired.