I do not know why, maybe it's at least like this, when I want to surprise someone I love, I tell myself " it will be very expensive or better not to do anything".

As a kid I remember that my family did not remember such days of love or birthdays, it was not an issue ...
"You know you're loved, you do not have to spend a lot of money for it"

It was created that were big birthdays that cost a lot of money.
And there were birthdays that almost ignored my birthday, or whatever.

source.

So, with women, it's not exactly like that.
My wife always told me, buy me something small and do not need anything big!
I did not believe her, I told her so
"We have "

1. Anniversary
2. My birthday
3. Her birthday
4. The Hebrew Love Day
5. The Latin Valentine's Day
   Almost one month salary goes only on celebrations of love every year(that's how men think) lolz...

I do love love, but we are a young couple, money isn't a common thing!

source

So here are some small instructions that will help the average man (at least for me it helped)

All that a woman needs these days is that you pay attention to her.
What can help it? Of course, keys to a new Ferrari can be a great idea.
But we'll go down to the ground

1. Most important, letter, write down what you feel about your wife.
   As you write, you will understand how important she is to you, and she will feel it.

2. The gift depends on your budget, so a woman does not look at what she needs (that's how men tend to think "What do I need"?), It's pleasant for her to get the gift because she gets the attention.
   It can be a scarf even if it has ten, it can be a speckled package, it can be a book that is very wanted, it does not have to amount to a lot of money, it can be a small gift.

3. You can go to a restaurant after you have written a letter! Remember, it's important for her to pay attention to me more than a normal day, that's the excuse to get attention.

4. It is very important that if you have already bought something small, be nicely packed, not in the supermarket bag :)

5. pick one date a year that you buy something expensive for her if you can afford more then one date every year so go for it.

I hope that I helped.

what do you think?