I went through hardship, why should others have to go through it: "that will only mean my suffering had no essence and i wasted it

It's a bit unnatural for humans to plant trees they will never stay under it's shade.
It's a rare virtue when people give and help others without expecting anything from them.

I still remember your what you said about success, it means different things to different people, this is very true.

Terry, you have found your niche.
Motivating and inspiring others to surpass not only their challenges and low self esteem, but even to surpass google winks

want the world to believe that humans, once they re-start to love; this is power and that a community of loving great minds, is powerful.

Love is unsurmountable.
It's cord is stronger than the blade of Zeus.