Wow! I love reading pro-unschooling posts, whenever I bring it up with most people I know I'm not well received haha.
My friend, who I've been trying to get here on Steemit, has been unschooling his two daughters. I first started reading about the concept when I was in college about 10 years ago and wasn't convinced. But, with anything, after some time continuing to read about the idea, it caught on.
Also most of my family teaches and they all have issues similar to what you describe. Nice post!