Reminds me back in the day when I single guy just wanting to get girlfriend. I tried all the pick up artist shit with minimal success til a read a book by Mark Mason with the simple concept of "create value and they will come." From that point on it was all about how much I can offer instead of how much I can take. Being attractive to the opposite sex become suddenly much easier. I think that's how we should approach steemit or any content creation in general.