That is true and I agree with you. It is often only out of pain that change occurs. When things are going well, few are willing to ask the tough questions of oneself. It is difficult enough to go inward and get honest when in pain; a great deal more difficult when one is comfortable.

In recovery, we call it "the gift of desperation".

Oftentimes, we need that kick in the tush to get us going in the right direction.