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No he should not. He should be confronted, helped and healed ... if he has the will to do the work. Forgiveness is also required in this process too! In the end, if we resort to violence against him, then we are no better than him. So if he refuses to heal, then I would be kicking him out of the family, clan, tribe and nation.

Your approach is so gentle that I am impressed by your mind blowing and amazing thoughts. The paradigm shift is necessary. thank you for that:)