When I asked my dad How did you and mom meet.
He told me how he got attracted to a beautiful hardworking well behaved young girl in the neighbourhood village, talked to her on the market day and initiated the successful relationship.
Dad married mum for character.
"Never marry a woman you don't love, because love is the bond of the family, and the man is the initiator of love", dad told me.
A humble respectful hard working God fearing creative woman is better than a hot sexy hipped brown girl without the above qualities, for MARRIAGE material.