So if you allow control they will eventually blow themselves up by miscalculation. It most likely won't end intentionally, but a political miscalculation is all it will take and given enough time, probability of extermination approaches certainty.

That's sort of like saying that a gun owner will eventually shoot themselves but the overwhelming majority never will and as the number of guns in America has increased the number of fatal accidents has declined. I think your equation is oversimplified. The failure mode for a nuclear weapon is not detonation is it not detonating.

So why are those ISIS guys not recompensing their victims? How come natural law didn't make them?

"natural law" is totally meaningless, you can't argue it in court. Natural law and a bus token will allow you to ride the bus.

Not only do we allow people to opt in to America, we also allow Americans to opt out of America.

Nukes are an example of state power making the whole world a more peaceful place.

Nukes are great, we should give Kim as many as he likes, why do you think he wants them?

He wants them to save money, they are cheaper than his massive conventional force.