@themarkymark don't take it to heart, you do a brilliant job and care about the community and keeping it clean. @surfermarly also cares about the community and wants to keep it fair and clean. You are both fighting to achieve the same objective, both aiming to get to point B from point A but both taking different routes...instead of the pair of you coming to blows, you are both whales and both capable of making a difference so get yourselves into a virtual room and talk it out. The pair of you alone are great, but together could be awesome...I will post this same reply on her most recent post on the off chance she reads it.
In the meantime for what its worth. You're a superstar here whom I respect. Its not worth getting stressed out about. Best wishes.
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Thanks for your efforts, but it's all good.
As @themarkymark admitted he was tired and frustrated when editing this post, so I don't take it personally. I'm here since 18 months and know how to handle such situations. Mostly I ignore them :-)
If you enter controversial debate you have to be prepared for the rebound.
If I slept I wouldn't have changed it and I was frustrated because you have been a dick to me repeatedly this week. Then you tell me "don't be jealous" and that your 10K posts in 1.5 years is somehow a bigger deal then my 3K in 6 months. But if I work as hard as you do, "someday you can go on vacation too". No account of the thousands I do under @buildawhale rewarding people who actually produce quality content. 6 months without fail I have produced a daily Curation Digest thanks to my curation team going through hundreds of posts a day to find five good posts and featuring them daily.
How's that powering down treating you?
I don't know why you are so aggressive against me and always need to use words such as dick just for me having a different opinion than yours.
Very good. I've just bought a piece of land with my Steem :-) I even did a video about it which became my most successful blog post so far. Quite a milestone both in reality and on the blockchain: https://steemit.com/dtube/@surfermarly/x2zm8s26
Maybe one day you will learn that different people have different opinions and that in business you can't take things so personally... All the best for you!
Difference of opinion is a discussion.
You were rude, snarky, and condescending. Hense dick.
That's your personal perception then. If you need such words to express yourself, combined with the word helpless in the title then maybe you didn't choose the right job. If you enter debate, you need to deal with rebound. If you can't manage it, then maybe you should let other people do the communication instead. Accusing and exposing others in public the way you've just done tells a long story about your professionality and self-confidence. Crossing my fingers for you :-) My airplane's ready for boarding! Have a good time
I feel helpless because no matter how much spam I stop I got to deal with people talking trash like you while everyone has their head in the sand and nothing changes. This platform is going to die if the amount of garbage produced and rewarded continues to grow like it does. The elevated SBD price just makes it even worse and accelerates our fate.
I didn't expose anything, it's a public blockchain and I just made people aware of the thankless condescending nonsense I deal with on a daily basis while spending hours daily trying to stop abuse.
I see you mention accusation a lot, yet only accusations I see are yours but feel free to clarify that if I am wrong.
Let go and move on, it's healthier. I do the same.
I won't be getting that job at the UN peace corp then............:-(
Where's that peace loving @aggroed when you need him
Did you really just call her "dick" here? Boy this is proof of brain.
Edit: Sry, but using such words really makes me angry. Can't we handle this in another way?
Yes, yes I did. Rightly so if you saw the comments made to me.
There is no "rightly" in calling someone a dick. That is literally a punch below the belt. ^^
@surfermarly you know I love you! Dear @themarkymark, I respect you! At the moment both of you are losing their respect. We all are humans.
Take a look on your post @themarkymark... how would you feel about being exposed in this way in a Trending-post like you did it with her?
Both of you: read your posts and comments and ask yourself, if you want to be treated that way yourself.
THEN come together again for talking.
We are a community. There is no right or wrong. Noone is "righter" than someone else. And Trending-posts don´t reflect the opinions of most of the users of Steemit. In fact I believe most of the "avarage users" are shitting their pants, when they think about giving their opinion on a controversial Trending-post.
Make peace!
Maybe you could find a solution for the topic then.
I call it as I see it. We are all grown-ups here, if calling someone a dick for being a jerk is too much, then I think this might be too grown-up for some people.
I mean, this is totally mature.
I would think you would have three times the post as me when you have been here three times longer and comment non-stop. I guess that's an important metric so I'll try to contain my jealousy.
I'm trying to stop the abuse, something I see very few doing and I got to deal with this every day.
It's what I tried to say!! Stop fighting!!! Again you expose her. You already mentioned that she had said this. What's the point? The point is you are pissed.
But somewhere underneath this there are topics that need to be discussed in a grown-up way. I also spoke to @surfermarly in this comment by the way. I think both of you need to calm down. (What will be even more difficult with exposing her again). Please stop. Maybe both of you are a bit tired. And maybe kids aren't little grown-ups, but grown-ups are little kids? I act like one often enough myself.
lol - don't go down on that level of conversation, you really don't have to...:-) Let him call people names if this is where he feels safe at. I have really no problem with that. It's his way, not ours.
To be fair reading what you wrote, I can understand him feeling unjustifiably attacked. I don't blame him for coming out swinging.
In China a sack of rice just fell over btw.
Bugger off on holiday ;-)
Recharge
Return
take care :-)
Thank you :-))