Oh, you don't need to be sorry! Your comment has stolen my heart! 💙
Yes, it is true that this is mostly the behaviour of older people. I am fast adapting so I have no problem with it.

And where exactly did you grow up in Malaysia?

We stayed with my boyfriend in Ipoh, but not permanently. We are now travelling and moving towards Thailand.
I heard about Malacca, but I haven't been there yet. How can I find you on the Discord?