STAY IN YOUR COMFORT ZONE OR NOT.

in #travel7 years ago

Leaving your comfort zone, surrounded by friends and family who are there the second you need help, is for most humans not an easy task and for some even unthinkable. Ok, maybe a week or two on vacation… Others get out asap to explore, preferably on their own.

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Cruising around Phuket, Thailand

I tried and did a lot of things in my life, worked and lived all over the world, grouwing slowly away from my hometown Antwerp, Belgium.
Thanks to my parents that moved to Spain when I was 5, living above a lovely 22 degrees C., playing on the beach with my dogs all day and going to the local ‘Spanish only’ school after a year. I felt the difference already when unfortunately, we had to move back to cold and gray Belgium after 4 years due to a missed business deal. So, spending my teen's craving for a warm and sunny climate, I worked hard to finance my early travels and to stay away as far and long as possible.
I will tell you later how it all evolved but one thing was always on my stubborn mind… Finding the road towards ultimate freedom.
Not to have lots of money, the cool car and big fancy house (although on a beach ...yes why not?), but to do whatever, whenever and wherever I want.
I need sun, a lot of Vitamin Sea and I really don’t mind working hard for it.
Sharing this adventurous lifestyle with my beautiful and faithful loving wife @yurodidit, who I met on Isla Margarita, Venezuela, 13 years ago, is already a big part of my dream coming true.

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Isla Margarita 'Los Frailes', Venezuela ...Diving in love

Of course, as I didn’t spend too much time working and paying taxes, etc. in Belgium so I have no right to a retirement allowance or contribution of any kind.
Now 49 (ajaijaii !), there is constantly this little voice whispering to me ‘get a move on and make some extra cash for your old days… soon’.
Voila, another reason to create your own business(es),… even for the people who do have the right to a retirement, there will be not too much left the way governments are spending everybody’s money. Especially if you don’t have any property when you reach that entitled age. For sure not enough to live in freedom and abundance which they all will disserve by that time, not talking about their health.
Some of my friends I see suffering to get by and maybe they can afford 4 weeks vacation in one year to unwind, reload and enjoy real life. More likely, close to a burnout and still have about 20 years more to go…

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Truth.

In my opinion, everybody (where I come from and most of the world) have the same choices in life: Stay in your comfort zone or get the f’ out a.s.a.p. and explore the world.
You can always turn back and nobody can take those adventures and knowledge away from you after.
But IF you find THE way that makes you happy and fulfilled with financial freedom,… DAMN that feels goooood!

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Koh Mak, Thailand, 'Shelter for the storm' on the way to Cambodia

We just finished building a catamaran in Thailand ( a huge adventure on its own which I will tell later) and sailed to Cambodia.
Now we're living in laybackKampot, a charming town on the banks of the majestic Praek Tuek Chou river that flows from the mountains in to the sea. We found out that it's not going to be easy to start a new business here

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Kampot, Cambodia

My next post will be the second part of this story and you will find you what is our master plan for new business(es) .
Stay tuned Steemers It's going to get interesting .

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Palmtree plantation, Koh Kut, Thailand

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A very warm welcome to you @frankhappa - enjoyed your intro post - lucky you spending those early years in the sun! I have also been to Isla Margarita (but shortly after we got married!). Sailing to Cambodia sounds like a great adventure - looking forward to the second instalment. Upvoted and following you!

Thanks, @greenstar, likewise.

Welcome to Steem @frankhappa I have upvoted and sent you a tip

Hi there, how can I see that tip you sent me the tip, please? Trying to figure out how everything works..
Cheers

hey @frankhappa! welcome to steemit!
I just fllowed you, please do the same! @nenakrizman

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that's hot !! reSteemed . my followers need advices like these!!

Thanks, everybody does, especially the ones who got stuck and think ' now it's too late'

Welcome to the community. your introduction was very nice. Followed. Follow me back 😘

This is exactly what I will do. But my plan is to support, others with my knowledge and time. Do some new projects and sell new products with a sozial background. Thanks for sharing your experiences with the community. 😄👏

Cool, many people need a lot of support and advice to get out.. and stay out.

Welcome and Thank You for being with us!! Following your Blog now

Thanks @digitalplayer I love it here and planning to write my life stories to inspire others.
btw, I just posted the sequel of my last post.. check it out.

I will look for it now

Great story, inspiring! You are so right about travel being good for the soul, and getting lots of vitamin sea is definitely the way to go!

Great stuff @frankhappa, I look forward to the next installment :D

Thanks @handsolo btw I just posted the sequel of the story and more to come so stay tuned amigo

you are so inspiring.. thank you for sharing and welcome to steemit.

Thanks @aburmeseabroad, I'm enjoying the fact that we can inspire each other in this great community

Hey man! Interesting post!
Welcome to Steemit. Hope you have a fun stay here! :D

Thank you fellow biker @wandereronwheels ,.. keep folowing the road towards freedom and forget the side ways..

Welcome here @Frankhappa!! Nice post, i will follow your account, please follow me!

Thank you @mekong , good to be here, get ready for the ride ...

Hi @Frankhappa !! Nice to see more people like you - here joining steemit!! Becoming a steamian is a great adventure ! Here you can win money while bloging! At the beginning it wouldn't be easy, but it isn't impossible. So just write from your heart and everything will be allright. ! Cheers! Wish you much luck! Greetings, @khunpoom !

Cheers @khunpoom, many more to come...

Hi and welcome to Steemit @frankhappa. Looks like you will have lots of interesting posts. I agreed that we need to get out of our comfort zone. In fact I talk about getting out of the comfort zone to write great articles.
https://steemit.com/steemit/@positivesteem/newbie-nuggets-how-i-create-killer-content-for-my-posts

Nice one Charles, @positivesteem , some great work you posted already. My adventures are now popping up in my mind thanks to Steemit. I really have a bad memory and really should have listened to my mom when she said many years ago that I have to write everything down..... Which I didn't with the result that now I have to dig deep to remember all. For sure I don't have any writing expierience but feel it slowly loosening up,.. you'll see ;)

Oh yes, a journal would defintely be useful. Glad you find my posts useful. Do follow me for more.

Hey @positive steem ,I send you a reply but don't see it showing up here. Did you get it? Maybe it was the eSteem app that froze up...
Hasta la vista

Yes, i saw your reply. Thanks.

Wow, congratulations for your achievements, and I completely agree with you.

I'm still only 20 years old (21 in a few days) and I do my best to get financial independence and try to travel as fast as possible. I want to achieve part of what you have, especially the part that lets me have whatever I want whenever I want. I am not a complicated person, I just want a simple life where I am not missing anything finanicially.

I wanted complete freedom since I was around 8 years old, and I always hated the way people do things these days - spend around 12 to 16 years in school, then get a job, get a family, have kids, work until you're close to dying, spend another 10 to 20 years not doing anything and then die.

I hated that, and I started working on the things that I enjoy, and while I'm not making thousands of dollars a day, I'm doing my best to work and achieve the things I want.

Great article, really motivational! I wish you the best of luck!

Thanks @raikuchen, many more inspirational 'real' stories coming your way... stay tuned..

Upvoted & followed !!!
Here is a post about my trip to Cape Town South Africa ♢
https://steemit.com/life/@beautybycayleigh/a-trip-to-cape-town

Thank you @beautycayleigh , looking forward to read your stories.

This was an interesting article with nice pictures! Looking forward to more from you!

Hi there welcome on board

Thank you, very happy to be here.

Welcome to steemit frankhappa, happy to have you here

I am @alienposts , my real name is achraf :)
Checkout my blog posts, Enjoy your time here and let's get this party started :)

Thank you @alienpost I'm following you too and always ready for a party ;)
check out my new, fresh post.

Thank you @gaman and follow you now.
Check out the sequel of my story that I just posted.
Cheers