i used to excercise but not anymore. I used to go to juijitsu practice regularly where before actually practicing martial arts they would do things like make you run or to squads while another person is on your back. for me it was fun cuz you get to be thrown and throw other people (if you fall correctly its not as painfull as it sounds). i sacrificed my sports time to focus on my studies and now i havent excercised in 3 years (lol).
I am happy you found someone you are willing to put efford in and actually excercise, though it would be completely normal for couples to do things individually and have a different time reserved for couple interactions. also keep in mind not everyone has the same love language and appreciates the same love gestures the same way.
im jealous about the weather as it looks warmer there. the weather here is just nasty and it is supposed to rain all week while its so cold outside. i also caught a bit of a cold.