My Friends,
How many times are you there for others and forget about yourself?
I do agree in providing your time, your support and attention to others 51% of the time or a bit more, but not 99% of the time because you are also a human being and have needs and requires a lot to work on yourself for your own personal growth.
You can't give others what you don't have; If you do, It will drain your soul.
"Love everybody the same way you love yourself. If you don't love yourself, you have no one to love".
"You change the world by changing yourself and providing a little bit of kindness everyday".
"Never look down on someone, unless you are helping them up"
"Take care of your body, so your body takes care of you".
Stay blessed.
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life is all about helping others in the time when they want you everyone will come up to you when its your time and they will take advantage but the real people are those who stands firmly with you even at the hardest time
Appreciate this speech, here the worlds have many person sacrifice their life for other wellness but recent later time he for-gate the helpfulness, so need to careful as own-self then than you doing for other
@javybar,
You are absolutely correct bro! We should not give 99% by forgetting ourselves! A great advice from you again bro!
Cheers~
thank you my friend
It is beneficial to be "selfish" in a way. To become our best, our strongest, will allow us to help many more people and instill these qualities into others to follow suit.
I always think of the airplane oxygen mask. You must put yours on first to be able to help many others, if not you will lose your breath and nobody will be saved. This applies to improving and taking care of ourselves first then others.
Taking care of ourselves first just shows you are smart and want to help many people.
Great post brother!
Thank you for your contribution my friend. Taking care of ourselves first in order to provide the proper support needed for other is priceless in this case. Recharge yourself before trying to recharge others.
Yes it is needed. Our temple needs to be strong! :)
Lovely way of summing it up! Followed you!
-Frolicking Raptors
Thanks followed you as well. :)
Beautiful post! Very inspiring! Followed you!
-Frolicking Raptors
right speech
thanks
@javybar, absolutely brilliant motivation concept you sharing to the community. I seriously think your motivation posts will change humans life. I salute you man... I have some fault those days. I was always worry about my friends. But they want only my self only their own goals. They always stay with me if I have money. I got most experience from my worst friends. Now I don't need them I have most genius friends here in steemit platform. I can't accept without loved myself, how to love other-selves. If I have ability to share anything I always refer to to help desolate peoples.
Thanks for presentation.
Very true. No every person we meet will be perfect for us. I know we have to take care of ourselves, but it doesn't seem you have to use people like that. If you feel you're being used without any appreciation back to you after you offer your help, lots of times it's better to walk away. If they do realize the friend they lost and come back and apologizes, that's a friend.
Life is all about give and take. But those who are always at the giving end enjoy the more happiness and Peace indeed Inner Peace.
There is a very famous saying of Islam
Human Beings are the Best Creation of the Lord and Kindness and Care are the biggest traits of Human Beings
Again a beautiful Message you gave in your Article
My Prayers and Best wishes are always with you @javybar
Stay Blessed
Thank you very much for your message. You have a wonderful contribution for all of us.
You have a really beautiful thought. I have really regretted this in my life in situation mentioned above. There was a situation when i used to help one of my friend a lot. Money, time, space, care, strength, support, I gave her everything but atlast she ditched me for a guy. I warned her that guy is not a right one he used to flirt with me too but she didn't trusted me. Instead she spoke bad words about me to that guy thinking that the guy likes me. At last the guy left, she came back to me asked for forgiveness but i was not ready to forgive her. But later my heart melted and i forgive her. Similarly, i had other situation like this too which made me realize whole thing about others we have to think about ourselves too.
the good thing about your experience is that you always did the right thing for her even if she was blind to see it. That's why she came back to you because she saw how wrong she was. Next time, give the advices you need to and if people don't listen, just walk away and focus on yourself instead :)
Yes you are totally right. She always tells me how regret she feels. And yes i m doing the same, if people don't take my advice i just walk off.
We have to change ideas We need friends who think in an independent way We change our lives and our mentality
We did not live in vain, we will live as we want, not as others do
wonderful message !
We have taken so much life that we disregard ourselves. We make such a great amount of strain to accomplish something that we "require" and don't invest enough energy to appreciate the weight and accomplish a comment genuine satisfaction. As a general public, we concentrate on attempting to keep our fellowships and connections, which we disregard the general population's needs. We neglect to deal with ourselves, as a result of pity, those fellowships and connections can end in a day. By the day's end you are extremely the special case that you are, so for what reason do we overlook things that bring bliss and joy and we invest such a great amount of energy with others? Continuously treat yourself and have more regard for yourself than for others.
I trust you going by my blog.
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thank you for your wonderful message.,
nicely said.. Now with Steemit in my life I can give more to others. It's small but helps..
Anyone can touch someone's heart with a couple of words my friends.
Thanks for the great share, but there exists some people who never want to understand the concept of emotions. If no one wants to drink the water, the purerity of it become useless. Thanks for sharing wish you a very good and healthy time.
thank you my friend
Don't forget yourself while caring of others.
correct!
i think be there for others who in need if you there for them " there should be another one to help you when you in need " it's call karma sometimes we have to chose between possible and impossible
but nothing is impossible if you try ☺
awesome! thank you
you are welcome ☺
Great post which teaches about someone who always think of us but never of themselves and other never think about them!!!! So everyone should think about themselves first then for others!!!
thank you. we should have time for ourselves, but never fall into selfishness at all :)
I couldn't agree more @javybar! As much as it is important to care for others, you cannot ignore yourself and your needs.If you always share your love to others and don't keep any for yourself, you will find yourself to be depleted of love and burned out. Moderation is key!
you found a wise word in this topic, you may get"burned out" if you don't find quality time and support for yourself first. If others need you around you, make sure you charge your batteries before going to everyone almost dead.
right one my friend...
love your friends and help them but also need to see in what circumstances you are that is important maybe you not able to support them.
very true my friend. Take care of yourself first before you have to take care of others.
yap right ☺ you too take care urself and your family
good one bro... it's very serious thought we are human being we nees to be there when someone in need but its become hard sometimes to help and ignore own problems.
Very true. Solve your problems in order to have the ability to assist in solving others.
You are absolutely right! Nowadays, more people don't think about there self anymore, because they have too much other things in there thoughts. It's time to think about the own life and reflect himself to stand in the own life with 2 legs. That keeps you strong.
very true, thank you for your contribution.
hello my dear friend @javybar ,,,, how are you ?
We have taken so much life that we forget about ourselves. We make so much pressure to do something that we "need" and do not spend enough time to enjoy the pressure and do something to achieve true happiness. As a society, we focus our attention on trying to keep our friendships and relationships, which we forget about the people's needs. We forget to take care of ourselves, because of sadness, those friendships and relationships can end in a day. At the end of the day you are really the only one that you are, so why do we forget things that bring joy and happiness and we spend so much time with others? Always treat yourself and have more respect for yourself than for others.
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stay blessed
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thank you for your contribution. We tend to forget about ourselves in friendships and relationships when they're not longer there, we feel we die after them. Very usual and it happens a lot. We need to remember who we are all the time and be grounded, so when something like that comes along, we are prepared.
You are really a positive person and your outlook on life is very wonderful
The love of people is one of the noble feelings of man
Always stay positive, my friend
thank you very much. I appreciate it.
Very wise words. It is difficult to give something that you do not have. Appreciate life. Good luck to you and kind.
Good luck to you as well
yeah and i agree with this that if we have a positive think sure we be for others and also for ourselves and it give us a good result and to help others and make us truely for others when they need us we sure reach to them and help them and also we care for ourselves that we dont leave ourselves behind
i think if we have a postive thinking it give us a better success and also better joys and happines @javyber
Never leave ourselves behind at any time my friend. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing. I totally agree with you, looking after oneself is the key to being a good partner, family member or friend. I especially like "love everybody the same was you love yourself," to me that means a very healthy relationship with oneself and others.
that's right! thank you very much.
Thank you @javybar
Following you! Lovely post!
-Frolicking Raptors
It all begins with being happy with yourself. Without that it's almost impossible to make someone else happy (for a short while maybe yeah, but not in the long run).
thank you
Yes I agree with you,we can’t always help other.if we can..we do but If we can’t.. then we have to just leave them.
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I always forgot about myself whenever i think about my family or any other person which i like the most
Give of yourself, but never sacrifice or compromise yourself.
Stop if resentment is building and retool. Don’t do the martyr thing. It helps no one and nothing.
I value your post.
Believe yourself and take after affection
Also, dependably will be sufficient
Great and fiendishness will without a doubt come
Be that as it may, in case you're cheerful you win
Remain favored.
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good imformesan
thanks
bro @javybar
i appreciate your post.
Trust yourself and follow love
And always will be enough
Good and evil will surely come
But if you're happy you win
Stay blessed.
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Great Thought dear thanks f or sharing with us @javybar resteemed
thanks
Thank for advice .
we should learn to love ourselves.
thank you
love to read it..
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Great post brother
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I have seen people making huge sacrifices in order to help people who don’t deserve it, and eventually being overloaded with tasks and responsibilities that in the end, affects negatively their lives.
Being reasonably selfish and handling our business first is better.
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yeah we sometime forget about our self we should always work like a team and move forward
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