Thank you for posting this, I heard through some other folks about your discussion in a group last night but I am not in that group. I am only guessing this is what the discussion is about. This sort of reminds me of some groups that are "invite only," and exclusionary. At least most of the groups I am in they are "apply". It's examples of exclusionary that set me off too, at least give people a chance. After looking at some groups or people like the above, I'd rather not be in their group at all. I'm not sure how they feel they are "better" than others when in fact they are very flawed. SMDH.
Blessings,
Eagle Spirit
PS. I couldn't open that link to the non-apology apology.