Men and women have a symbiotic relationship. In today's world we are forced to compete for manufactured limited resources. This makes it easier to rule over humans. One stick is easy to break compared to a bundle of sticks.
Most of the men I know are like their sex organs, out front, no hiding when they want to fight or make love. Women carry their sex organs inside, they hide and strike from the side in love and war. Of course there are exceptions to every rule. The native Americans had several gender rules for different types of women and men. The two spirit people carry both gender energies and played roles in the arts/crafts and shaman spirit world. A strong women with high sexual energy and good business sense was highly prized as first wife in the Blackfoot tribe. A good man gave everything away to the tribe, protected and provided food for his family.
I'm attracted to very smart men that are taller than me and focus on family. I can hunt/cure meat, garden, sew, care for babies/kids and feel comfortable in traditional roles Women played in my society. I can hunt/fish/camp and don't like girly stuff, I like hanging out with the guys and listening to their bullshit.
Wow, that was a thought provoking comment, thank you!
Actually, I´ve never considered that the position of sex organs could have any influence on a certain male/female behavior. Plus: I know a lot of women that are quite aggressive when it comes to conquer men. Seems that I have come to know a lot of exceptions to that rule :)
I totally agree on that last part. My whole life I´ve always felt more comfortable being surrounded by a group of boys than by a group of girls. I´d always favor fishing and camping over shopping and dressing :D
Thanks for stopping by, @reddust. I enjoyed the read!
I didn't fully agree with everything you said in your article, but much of it. I am likely going to be hanging out with the guys and @reddust talking about whatever. I don't like the stereotypical "girl stuff". Shopping, Drama, too many shoes, etc.
I do however have a nurturing personality and other "girl-like" features. I am more emotional, he is more reserved emotionally. In my house I kill the spiders and mow the lawn, but he fixes all the broken stuff and helps me with the heavy lifting. I clean faster, he cleans deeper. We have taken turns earning more and less than each other. It is always a careful dance when you do not have traditional roles.
My husband is a protector and a lover and I wouldn't want it any other way. I sum it up with - We are equal and very different.
Nice conversation ladies. I enjoyed reading what you both had to say about it.
That is a really nice view @whatsup. I very much like the idea of the "careful dance", that's a beautiful description. Obviously that dance is something very personal and there are no books that describe the ideal choreography. It evolves between two persons that care for each other and the common way, giving and taking, loving and being loved.
I think I should write more about relationships, it's so fulfilling to have all these great talks with you :)
I think the men's plumbing is a very poor design, especially in battle. I have pondered why men are so aggressive with such tender parts hanging out for the world to see...lolol. One good kick in the balls and they're out of action! Women have a better design ... we make superior warriors too
Bodies are like cars, designed for certain kinds of terrain, we cannot deny this, people sound crazy when they do! But the mind, the driver of the car is like water, it takes the color and the shape of its container...
I love men and respect the burdens they must carry. I would not want to be a man. How does one walk with such tender parts between their legs....haha😂😂😂
I've thought a lot about this, you and I are called Tomboys in my society.
Comment from my boyfriend who has just read your reply: Why are boys always reduced to their balls? :D Well that´s a word actually.
Tomboys... Can´t we be Tomgirls? :)
I hate English....Alsoomse is a name given to a tomboy in the Blackfoot tribes. It means independent.
The name Tomboy came from a movement back in 1550s. Women who wanted to wear sensible clothing, eat healthy and exercise!
Tell your boyfriend men need to evolve balls and dicks like hyenas. They are kept inside, in fact you can't tell a girl hyena from a boy!
I wouldn't reduce men to just their balls if they weren't trying to show me how big they are all the time ....hahahaha
LOL - oh really do they? :D
Thanks for the hyenas theory, I´ll tell him. Even though I am not sure if we may change that in the short term, haha
Thanks for the laugher :)
hahah.. That's a good question