Excellent post! Life is what you make of it. When I was 40 years old I got divorced from my husband of 28 years because I was tired of his constant negative attitude and keeping me in that environment with him. Now that I'm 60 I'm sorry that I wasted so many of those years being unhappy. We have the control, like you said, "wake up and use it!".
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This ties into your post about being in a comfort zone... its ok to be comfortable but its not ok to be comfortable being miserable or in bad situations. We have the power
Exactly It's like my roommate and I we very much know that the hostility in the household especially when the kids are around it can get very stressful, so there may come a time here when my lease is up that we may have to split ways . To save our friendship if that makes sense...
it sucks knowing this too but we talk about it often and understand its just time. Just because i get my own place doesnt mean its the end of the world. Just the next chapter.