there is a story example that can point to a way to go ... have you looked at the game Mass Effect: Andromeda? the start of the store line shows an AI that was integrated into the main character's mind so the AI can grow with humanity and would be a part of us and in so doing be invested in our future. This has been the best solution that I have come across. Kinda like a symbiotic relationship where for the AI to fully function the human companion must live in balance with it.