Anger issues in relationships: should i stay in this relationship or Leave?

in #teardrops7 years ago

i have been dating this girl and we have broken up several times and still managed to get back together. we are both graduates and we are just starting life meaning there's hope of a future with her but somehow i am scared of her temper and i have always complained about that . She gets angry with me for weeks yet i cant even get angry with her for days. she has changed me so much that these days i just play along coz i hate being seen as the weaker one. we had a little issue 2 weeks ago and she stopped calling and i stopped calling too, it wasn't easy for me at all wallahi. After 2 week, i decided to call her, and can you imagine she was still bitter at me, and did not pick up her calls or reply to texts. Today is her birthday and she still isn't picking up. i feel like i am wasting my time with her even though i deeply love and care for her. 

WHAT SHOULD I DO? 


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 Hello Gems, back in again with another episode of the issues and realities we face in relationships, and its up to you and us all to discuss and find a solution. The person in question today, is asking whether he should break up or make the relationship work with his long term girlfriend.

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