When it comes to intercourse,women will have more pleasure for two reasons:
Sexual pleasure in intercourse: A Donut will have more nerve endings than a sausage,which makes it more sensitive to touch when compared to a sausage and more vulnerable during -- "you know" "that thing". And to the next point,
The span of orgasm is longer in women than in men.On an average women will have an orgasm for 15 to 22 seconds which is higher when compared to a man who will experience it for 5 to 9 secs.
And women will have cherries(you know what i mean) on their donuts which is a sensitive zone on their bodies.And men doesn't have one like it.
Different people get different amounts of pleasure from sex. There are too many variables to determine based strictly by gender.
Some people have very low sex drives and could live without sex so they might not enjoy it as much as people who are crazy about sex. Some girls can't cum from sex but still love it. Some guys get really self conscious during sex and avoid it. Someone might enjoy sex more than their partner one night, and their partner enjoys it more the next night. Someone might enjoy a certain position way more than other positions and might enjoy sex more than their partner in that position. Each person is different.
Hormone differences are tricky as indicators, because men and women release different amounts and types of hormone even when they're not having sex. Women release as more oxytocin than men - oxytocin creates the intense, loving, bonded, oneness feeling of deep attachment. During sex, those levels skyrocket and those levels can stay high up for up to two days afterwards. In men, although they can rise up to 3-5 times their normal levels, they drop off rapidly after sex. This is why women are dreamy and affectionate after orgasm, but men are more likely to be disinterested and fall asleep.
Men, on the other hand, have higher levels of testosterone, which creates more of a desire to have sex more often in general. In women, oxytocin can increase a woman's testosterone production (yes, women have testosterone) - that sort of indicates that when a woman has had sex recently, it creates increased desire to have it again soon afterwards. That's why women who haven't had (good) sex/orgasms in a long while say they become disinterested in it - when they finally start having it, they suddenly act as if they're obsessed.
Because of these things, I'd guess women get more pleasure out of sex, but men usually feel more of a relief from their more frequent urges for sex.
It the woman's design that works for her. Women's orgasms don't empty a gland like the prostate gland. Example, you can only squeeze so much juice from a lemon and it's empty. Women don't have this problem. I guess it's the reward for bearing children.
I think it completely depends on the person.
When I was a teen I seldom masturbated more than once a day and two was my limit.
I know men who could do it as much as 5 or 6 or more times a day. It sounds like they are pretty happy with their sexual pleasure. I would be perfectly happy with that. At my age I'd be happy with once a day.