Queenpollyanna, Queenpollyanna lol see there i said your name yay lol hope you feel better now :) please do not discouraged, you are thinking about it wrong, dont focus on getting upvotes, focus on making friends first, that will build a following, then focus on blogging good content and your followers will upvote you. Like me, i do funny videos, ppl like that etc also money will not come overnight, you need to make it a habit to love steemit over time!