Aww that's a sad story. Sometimes it seems there is no redemption from the poor decisions of our past.

Our experiences, however low they may have taken us, can always be a blessing if we are willing to drop shame and share them with others.

I've always felt it's better (not always easier) to be honest and true to myself, than to live a lie to be what I think someone wants me to be.

That said, I always root for love to win through. Hope this story eventually leads to a happy ending. :)