That's very open and honest of you to say. I think you and I are motivated to write about this honestly for similar reasons, and yet coming from opposite ends of the problem. I don't think women realize how their sexual indifference can send a man looking elsewhere. But I also don't think men realize how "just looking" at porn can kill their romantic relationship in so many ways. It's a sad situation. I'd like to think that "true love" can bring couples together over problem issues like sex, but it's usually not the case.