Yes, I was thinking the same thing when I saw the preview of your comment - that you have to be fleeing an abusive relationship - or be a recovering addict - in order to get help as a woman, even with children!

I think the other thing that has to happen is that our society has to finally recognize motherhood for what it is - a real job that, when properly supported, gives the maximum return on investment - i.e. children who grow up as well-adjusted as possible!