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RE: Do you want to help @fulltimegeek but don't know how? A peaceful way is through @friendsofgondor

in #stewardsofgondor7 years ago

I was gonna look you up on discord, but that is also a learning curve right now. I juuuuust began dipping my toes in a couple days ago and am heading there after this. But, I actually figured it out! Which is also why i deleted the post. Thanks for checking!!

Then, when coming back to reply to this msg i ran into the lex guy and, woa. It's thrown me for a loop. Like what is even happening?! Part of me feels too that i want to just be peaceful. Focus on helping. There are so many mucked up paradigms to sort through. There has to be a better way for all of us. 😓💖

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I think you should stay out of the way until you fully understand it @yogajill! Honestly I want you to stay healthy and happy and I know the #stewardsofgondor would mostly share that feeling. So if you are in any way not clear of what you are doing, then just watch and observe but stay away from the front lines for sure.

They don't need the people of our side to fight, they would never want me to talk you into going into battle. The stewards that I have met (and they are becoming more each day) are determined to make this a place that you love. So its ok to not take sides and its ok not to participate. Honestly that is what many will do.

The reason I have chosen to help in the way that I am doing is that I believe that it does send a signal for moral support and lets the people fighting know they cause is supported. But The Lex guy did make some valid points and that is something you can weight and consider. I have my own opinion, but you should certainly only act if you have weighed the consequences and determined it was the right chance to take.

So I'm sorry to be wordy, but I want you to understand that its ok to not get involved. And it is also ok if you do too. I want to be your friend for a long time and those cute little smilies should have smiles on them each time I see you ;)

So contact me on discord when you just want to chat about anything too... Ohh and we started a new gametonight that you can play if you want that I think is pretty cool (I think so because I helped to make it) lol :)

here's the link if you want to play!!!

https://steemit.com/earthnation/@newbiegames/earthnation-presents-newbiegames-jeopardy-where-every-valid-answer-is-a-winner

Hey Dave 😊

I really appreciate that you're reaching out & focused on helping in a good way. I have also come to the same conclusion as you suggest! Just need to get myself more sturdy here. And, stay active with the people as usual. Which has it's way of being supportive too. I checked out Lex's blog and what he had there that i could interpret in regards to numbers (in the past two weeks) was not much. Tat made sense to me anyway. But, it also does not make any sense that this issue at hand can't be discussed. So, everyone can come to an understanding. And, we can carry on. It is dissapointing that there's stonewalling to such a degree. And, to be squashed because one wants to give a leg up. I'd be ---who knows where without the help of my community stepping in. And, i aim to pay it forward looking ahead. Which is the same for so many of us. We all need the support of another. No one can live life alone.

Thanks for inviting me to discord! I like fun 😁 i will check it out. And, continue prayers of peace 🌹

Bless you kind @davemccoy!

yeahhh you have the fun smiley's back ;) ... yes we want you to be here long term so just always keep having fun!

btw, since I can tell you will rival me in words, you should join @abh12345's Curation and Comment leagues and you will see how you do versus everyone else! He does a terrific service to us all so we can have fun and plus he also gives away prizes too! Its fun. Here is the link:

https://steemit.com/steemit/@abh12345/58vhut-steemit-the-curation-leagues-sbd-and-delegation-prizes

And just tell Asher that I sent you and that you would like to be registered!!! He will be happy to do so if you ask ;)