It is going to take some time to go through both of these posts. I have a project I need to work on today and class all day tomorrow and the next (grad school), but I will try to get through these as soon as possible. Take the delay as the world interfering in my ability to dedicate the necessary time and not avoidance. This is a long list of topics to chew on for myself and in my understanding of you, therefore I do not want to give you a superficial answer in the interest of speed.

One more thing, I think it would be better to start a new post on this topic, maybe even two: one for my side, the other for yours. Let me have a think on that as well, and will post according. More soon!