"Visiting a cemetery", what a good example! You know a lot, that is for sure. What you said reminded me of Alan Watts' lectures where he talked about that Zen Masters always answer worldly when being asked a spiritual matter and answer in a spiritual manner when being asked a secular question.

It's always an act of balance to accomplish the task of not rejecting people for their differences and welcome their perspective. Common interests are the ground to feel commonality.

I am looking forward to what you come up with next.