LOL! I have to laugh about the attempt from Mr. Bion to put into language what is not letting itself being put into language.
What cannot be grasped is what I tried to leave open with the term "uncertainty" - which withdraws itself from spoken words or formula.
But is still a matter of feeling and intuition. Maybe also explained with the absence of something. When you paint a picture and after it's done you would extract all the yellow out of it and then present it to a viewer without telling him that you pulled out the yellow. Maybe he wouldn't come up with the exact answer but would say that it doesn't look quite right (or odd) or something is missing he cannot grasp.
I have often a feeling when reading or listening to something and I cannot exactly tell what's bothering me. That is the moment of being true to myself and make a decision.
Thank you for commenting and complementing me.