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The wonder of life comes with living such life. Irrespective of whatever happens, one certain thing to know or remember is that "To live is a choice". So, can one say life is the generalized program of choices made?
In my defence life as whole is filled with options therefore choices are made, it also comes with it's own view to the many individual, so I can now boldly say life isn't what you choose, rather it chooses you because of your choices.
What life comes with could be identified or described as that fully wrapped gift you get from someone and you are instructed not to open till when you are told to do so, therefore telling you that, you can't even steal a peek at the contents of the carefully wrapped gift. In otherwords I describe life as a "Loyal Soldier" that helps you execute your choices no matter what they are and gives you the outcome without sympathy. People believe that as life comes with challenges so also does it come with it's "Luck". The truth is that, if you don't give room or space for luck to take place in your life then you could say you were fated with such "dumb-luck".
Life is the wonder and result of choices in the sense that, you choose to become a success or a failure due to your choices no matter how slim your options maybe, at most times the problem might not be with the choices but the options, for example- A game with carefully hidden clues, certain times you miss out on that part of success because you were unable to know or see where your clues or options were hidden. You talk about "One-way knowledge", and I say "Diversify your knowledge", with the latter you are given the avenue to source out and explore opportunities therefore, discovering the possibility of the impossible and seeing the yet unseen.
Without you there is no life, I said earlier that life could be described as a "Loyal Soldier" knowing that, without rules there can never be a follower, so the fact you are probably feeling so sucked up in the void you call life is not because you have no choice, instead you preferred being or feeling the way you do. Mind you, the fact life is laced with so many options for your choosing doesn't make it easier, as a matter of fact it just got harder, but if you could recall I said ,"life has it's own view to the many individual", so at that point you feel is your breaking point or your hardest day yet, bear in mind that people had once been in such situations and they came out victorious not by doing what they thought to be "Okay" by their standards rather, it was what they thought best by anyone standards using their principles as guides. You think it's over for you at this stage of your life and as a result you feel the need for it to come to an end literally, or you feel you are alone with nobody ready to understand you, well to let you on a secret, aàa!what you are going through is just a phase, you don't have to make it a permanent thing, for when you do then those choices you were meant to make and options that were meant to guide you in order to extinguish such feelings becomes difficult to find and you are left with these words "l had no choice", but you will always have a choice, there is the choice;-
To feel self-pity, the choice to wallow in that self-guilt over the choices you made earlier, the choice to self-destruct on that exam you flunked or of the time you thought you were being non-challant and irresponsible, the choice to remain that same sad self you've always been or the choice to go back to that pit you were dug out from. Breaking news! as a matter of fact it's a"Choice". But of the negative choices you have made there is a constant one which is the choice to SHAKE-it-OFF and move on by doing the best you can to do so, because no matter the self-hate for being non-challant or irresponsible, the truth is you are still being irresponsible with the bitter choices you are about making and when you look closely there is still someone out there that deserves or needs you no matter your past. For the past is non-negotiable, but the present needs amendment so as for your future to be certainly safe. Know thus, the storm has long been over and if it were to return it would be preferrable if it were unable to blow away your houses or investments because this time they are firmly rooted, but afterall it's your choice.
Life is a constant struggle, but your choices makes you at peace with such struggle, and such struggle makes life worth living. You aren't meant to let life choose your battles or struggles for you because it would be giving you a whole lot you didn't bargain for, leaving you always at the cross-roads of permutations.
Life as a whole is regarded as a companion because of the many individual and character imbedded in it who at some point in their lives where regarded as friends or haters in your life, so you can't stop living for that because, you will always have both friends and haters at every junction. The only solution is to make sure your relationship with such individual counts, make certain it was one to remember and be happy for, because at that breaking point when you remember the smile you put on those people's face and the smile they put on yours, you suddenly realize the world actually needs a beautiful person LIKE YOU, and nothing feels good than being needed and wanted for good.
But of course I mean the relationship you make with people you call your friends.
So make it count!
life could either be your companion for Good or Bad
