Keep in mind that even an angry parent is better than an absent parent! While they can be very unpleasant, their anger often conveys advocacy.
Being a teacher, especially the new one should be well oriented that a teacher is not only about teaching. Parental engagement is a big part of this journey to becoming a great teacher.
Well one of the greatest challenges for a new teacher is meeting these kind of parents. This can be a nerve-racking experience and it’s something teachers get little training in. Almost I think, except for those selected few that are "jackpot"...we've all been there. And nothing can solve this problem, except that there are ways to take the edge off so that you can open up the lines of communication and deal with the parent on equal terms.
Ways To Deal With A Difficult Parents
- Reach out first
Be pre-emptive. Reach out with a positive message to start off on the right foot. - Don’t patronize
And when you reach out, be authentic. Don’t pretend to be their best friend, nor should have that “nipping problems in the bud” tone. - Be prepared to listen
What do they want to discuss? Ask them at the start of the meeting, not at the end. - Ensure you follow up
Sum up the exchange and be ready to set up a subsequent meetings and chats. - Keep in touch
Do this in a way that suits the parents, at the time that suits everyone, regularly. If there are ongoing concerns, aim for at best, even if it is a quick email or note in the homework diary.
Hopefully you will now feel more confident, prepared and open to opportunities. Don’t worry about “holding your ground” either. Just reach out as an educator to a member of your own community.
Do feel free to share if you have any other tips...
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