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THE current situation in which parents emphasize that children can read before entering primary school. Cases like this when the child will be valuable in the eyes of parents if the first rank.
Adults in this case parents tend to want to rush the child. Hurry it hurriedly, chasing the child so fast can. There are many, such as wanting children to quickly read, quickly able to arithmetic, quickly speak a foreign language, boldly speak up front, and various other affirmations.
Of all that the parents stress on the child is to be able to quickly read. Unwittingly this can endanger the child.
Why should a child not be rushed to learn to read? because it actually lowers the interest of children learn, can even make children become quickly bored and stressed. To be able to read, children not only need an intelligent brain but also requires a ready sense of the senses, the sense of hearing that has grown, and also the coordination between senses to be able to read.
The new child is ready with all the circumstances at the earliest at the age of 8 years. For that let's discuss one by one.
Vision Sight
To read the most important role is the eyes. It seems that reading is like a simple visual process. And to read, many parts of the brain play a role. All these parts of the brain need to work synergistically at the same time.
Hearing Sense
Many researchers see that child hearing is also not mature enough to read well before the age of 8-9 years. If we try to imagine being a 7-year-old, he tries to read but is always blamed and considered stupid, late developing. When in fact the organs hearing that has not been until the stage of its development.
Coordination between senses
Good eyes and ears are not the only thing needed to read. Difficult reading is not only a problem in the eye, but it is also caused by how the eye works with the brain and all the senses of the child. Because of the importance of this coordination, it is not surprising that many courses have not taught the technique before the child enters the age of 10.
Conclusion
If up to 8 years the child can not read, the child is not wrong. He's not stupid. He is not left behind. It's just that development has not got there yet.
If parents feel lazy children do not read do violence verbal against him. Do not blame him. No need to feel ashamed if the child is somewhat left behind than his friends.
Unfortunately forcing children to learn according to the wishes of parents. Forcing children too hard just actually makes the child lose the potential to learn various other things.
by @dsatria
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Agree! Jangan pernah memaksa hanya karena keinginan dan kemauan, apalagi membandingkan dengan anak lain. Merusak masa depan.
Tapi saya menemukan kasus di mana masuk sekolah SD harus bisa membaca. Bahkan ada sekolah melakukan tes masuk.
sudah lebih dari 20 tahun saya protes soal ini karena sekarang TK sudah belajar baca tulis dan matematika yang sulit, masuk SD kalau nggak bisa baca ditolak... anak saya semua tak saya masukkan TK dan tidak mau ikut tes, diterima bagus, tidak pun tak mengapa... ada home schooling yang lebih bebas bagi anak untuk berkembang... memang sistem ini harus diubah,,, merusak!
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