I really do agree with your statement here @sharoonyasir:

If we lose at something, the other person who wins is a winner and that makes us a loser, right? But why is this such a bad thing.

It truly is not a bad thing! In my life I've found that my biggest losing moments, and the ones that really did make me feel like a loser, actually lead to many winning* moments that truly made me feel on top of the world.

I also liked how you approached the situation with Faateh:

if we pressure him into thinking a certain way, he will become overwhelmed and may not learn to think independently.

It's really true. If you prohibit a thought or feeling to be explored, it will only heighten the experience and ultimately lead to more of what you're trying to avoid.

We truly are the meaning makers of our life. So much of what we experience... all of it actually... has to do with the meaning we place on it.

The good news is that we define that meaning and we can always change that meaning. Thus, we can always change what life means to us and create the best meanings possible :)

Awesome post here @sharoonyasier. I really enjoyed it!

Speaking of adding meaning to things, I think you might find this recent post of mine valuable. I talk about how we often choose to not take action because we place such great meanings of power on our government, rather than realizing that we have great powers within us to create whatever it is that we truly desire.

Feel free to check it out here: True Life: My Country's Government Has Shut Down [Here's Why That Doesn't Matter]

Cheers!

~ @axios