Whats up girl!!!! Great to see you finally get wit it. Supporting your man maintains a healthy relationship. Especially when its something the relationship can benefit from.

As far as these questions, they got me a bit baffled as well. I've came across some very imformative post on the sitr that helped me understand it a bit better. Then i decided to stop questioning it so much and just go with the flow. If you check out my blog you should come across some post i resteemed and comented on with some information that may help you.

Stay blessed. Much love always.