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Thank you. Not my intention to get hurt. Showing one person kindness shouldn't upset a non involved third party. If it does then they need to reevaluate why they were so quick to anger at the situation and saw it as a threat to themselves. Kindness isn't a scarce good unless we as humans make them supply of it low intentionally. The quality of it never goes down, the demand is high, and the supply could be endless. It's worth is always valuable. I give kindness freely because it's what my religion teaches, I will stand behind it regardless if it sometimes negatively affects my situation.

Apart from not being theistic, I agree with much of what you said.