YOU Belong Here - "RUN YOUR OWN RACE"

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Plenty of us are struggling not only on Steemit but in real life, family, children career etc. Not earning much on Steemit?  It's not the end of the world yet. Like what I've said on my previous blog. I crawled when I started it here. I'm still crawling and learning.

In my story the "THE LOST BUG IN THE STEEMIAN FOREST." CLICK HERE It was my journey as a lost little bug confused,  hungry and homeless. Along the way, some Big Bears, guided me and supported me. The Steeamin Forest is not perfect, now and then you will encounter a lot of drama's. It's normal I guess. Sometimes you feel behind, alone, lost, no friends, no family, no community to support you. BE PREPARED!! 

Steemit is like a a roller coaster. They ride with you, sit beside you, scream, laugh, make you go around and around, sometimes you want it to stop and get off. And then you try again until you throw up. Enjoy the ride because this is only the beginning. It's not easy. All you need is determination, because YOU BELONG HERE!!!!

Money! money $$$$ Power! More POWER AND MORE $$$!! Yeah everybody needs money. But Steemit is not all about money. If you think that, then you won't survive that long. Some get lucky, others not. But I'm sure they work really hard on it.

"STEEMIT IS NOT A SPRINT BUT A MARATHON." 

GET INVOLVED
Don't get stuck with one community. If your community is supporting you then stay as long as you're happy. But if not, don't feel bad though it is very painful. We all have that cry and agony. Unfair contribution and favoritism, abuse of power it's everywhere. Try to move on and focus more on your own blog and not the wallet of others.  Explore and experiment what works and doesn't work. 

 GENUINE FRIENDSHIP
I invited my friends, family, neighbors to join here, thinking that we could support each other, some came but most of them left. They couldn't stay any longer. You will survive on Steemit by making real friends, some are fake and some are not. Jealousy and envy are always there. Use it in a good way to improve your crafts.

YOU ARE UNIQUE
Everybody has talent and special charms. 

KEEP GOING
Even you only have zero income. I was jumping when I earned 2 cents, sometimes "bokya"means zero, nada,, nothing. But keep blogging even you feel like giving up.

TALENT TO BE DISCOVERED
Believe me, I'm sure you have more and a lot more to be discovered. You haven't  maybe discover it yet. "Oh I'm not a blogger" me too "I'm "jologs". (means chessy lol) Start believing in yourself. How are you gonna know if you haven't try it?  

SHINE AND STAY WITH THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE
We all have this kind of frustrations, sometimes we lose our control and the positivity because of the negative vibes around. Stay motivated. Hang out and laugh with your new friends and encourage one another. 

I'm  half year on Steemit and still a newbie. I dont know everything. I'm only sharing my experience with you. Below is my article "My Steemian SURVIVAL KIT". I want to share it with you again. I met lots of wonderful newbies these days and I'm trying to help them in a small way. Papa Bear @paradise-found started a #gratefulvibes community and a NEW COMER SPOTLIGHT SECTION on his blog ATTITUDE AND GRATITUDE. Feel free to visit, ask or comment. He's an amazing guy with a big heart like a WHALE! 

How I survive  On Steemit And Still Surviving. 

1. Be yourself. Never imitate somebody. You are unique.
2. Share from your heart. Share your talents.
Can you cook? Can you sing? Dance, can you write?  
3. Love what you do. You won't go wrong.
If you love your work, you don't feel like it's  work.
4. Leave a real comments from your heart, people can feel if you're copying and pasting a comment.
5. Be consistent, post regularly if you can.
6. Do not force yourself to be successful right away.
7. Avoid using "follow me back" or advertise your posts on the blogs of others especially if it's not related to the topic. Respect the author.  (kung magkaibigan kayo ok lang kasi kilala mo)
8. Do not get hurt if they don't follow you back. You can unfollow them if you want, it's your choice.
9. Develop your crafts. Learn to count your blessings instead of counting the blessings of others.
10. You don't get noticed? It's painful but that's fine. Don't rush.
11. Be grateful for whatever earnings you've got.  
12. Do not compare yourself to other Steemians. This is a trap!
13. Focus on your wall/blog.
14. Respect the elders, old Steemians who have been here for a long time.
15. Do not get jealous or envy others. If you are, that's ok but do it in a positive way by improving your skills. Again this is a TRAP because you become focused on them, not on your own blog.
16. Don't give up. Keep trying.
17. Make friends, lots of friends. I met alot of funny, loving and crazy friends:) I'm surviving because of them lols
I'm truly grateful for this.

Read also:  Ultimate Reason Why You Think You're Struggling on Steemit And How To Beat It @rye05

 My journey on chasing the $$$ Why do we chase the $$$? @joalvarez

If you want to be inspired and get motivated, read the blogs of inspiring Steemians. Aside from your original content and your talents, it is very important to have a positive attitude. Yes, attitude is important than your impressive work. 

Share from your heart....Encourage one another. You cannot please everybody. Some people will like you, some will not. Just be yourself.  

        "RUN YOUR OWN RACE,  BECAUSE YOU BELONG HERE" 

Enjoy reading and have a wonderful time.  #GOODVIBES

 Please continue to support @surpassinggoogle
If you haven't vote your witness yet, vote Terry now!
Write @steemgigs >>>https://steemit.com/~witnesses

 

Yours truly,
The village girl @sunnylife in the Steemian Forest


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This is very helpful article for everyone who is struggling on steemit, financially and emotionally.

I think you covered a lot of things that steemians should learn about how to be better on steemit not just the technical side of it.

Thank you for being one of the best Steemian friends I've ever met. I look forward to seeing you in person.

You are strong, let's be strong though my heart is pounding and pouring in tears right now and I cannot put my thoughts in writing, you know what I mean. It's really tough sometimes but hey tomorrow is a new day, right?

Thank you for always being here. Love you!

Switie. This comment is very valuable to me. No "tears" goes to waste and moreso now, we reward every and each tear

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how sweet and encouraging

Correct @purepinay, well said.

Thank you so much @purepinay!! YEsss, tomorrow is another day:)
You are also there to help newbies non stop.
You're my first bff here and I was sad when u left for a while....
But you taught us to go on.@emonemolover @bonjovey
Then I met lots of amazing Steemians:) and you came back, stronger!
We already met in person hehe we felt connected from the beginning (sakit sa bangz)
We struggled, wala ligo haha steem and steem and keep going.

Hugs for you and for your love to this community.
Stay strong, know it's not easy but you are doing a wonderful job!
I know they can make it too!!

WE BELONG HERE!

Love you more and Keep shining!

xoxo

Great post sis! Yes I belong here and I keep going hehe :) ginagawa ko na nga lang Diary yung mga blog ko para pang forever na talaga :D gorabels!! Xoxo

yes we belong here!! diary ng babaeng gala pak na pak lols
enjoy ako sa mga blog mo Lence, goraaa lang.
KAkayanin natin yan!

Wow @purepinay reading you too had struggles and yet now you're toooo popular always inspires me to better my craft.

She had struggles too, it wasnt easy. I'm glad she came back so, Keep steeming!!

Nice story, so inspiring. This gives me hope though. Thanks

There is much hope for sure

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Beautiful post @sunnylife.

I absolutely love it and I love all the tips for the new people on steemit.
I love what you said, "Steemit is like a rollercoaster". I totally agree with you on this one and that is what makes so so interesting and fun and this is what makes us to challenge ourselves because "No pain, no Gain" I don't mean physical pain, but just doing things right and working hard is what pays off at the end.

thank you soo much my beautiful friend.
I hope some tips that I shared can help them a bit, because they are very talented people
PApa bear is doing great with his new comer section for newbie.
No pain, no gain. It's a challenge so true!!
Can i link your blog
My journey on chasing $$$$? it's very inspiring post.
https://steemit.com/money/@joalvarez/my-journey-on-chasing-the-usdusdusd-why-do-we-chase-the-usdusdusd

Thanks so much. xoxo

Of course, you can, sweet lady.

thank you my beautiful friend:)

All well said

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Thank you so much @surpassinggoogle for your beautiful heart and of course for those beautiful teardrops tokens.
I loved your post on the @teardrops. You are awesome and a great role model for this community @surpassinggoogle

That's really nice to read.. and inspiring sis.. ♡♡♡ im so thankful i didn't give up ! and still steeming :) 😙 Have a nice day sis... Tc always

Giving up is not the answer.
You are here and you will stay.
You belong here.
thanks ganda, waley na ko sp whaha dalaw ko sa blog mo baka a
abutin pa ng bukas huhu

steem on!

thats ok sis... I charge muna lol .. para may kapangyarihan ka ulit ahhahahahahha...

thanks lampas kalahati na hahah
kili kili powersss too haha

ang baho niyan sis lol.... 😂

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Patience is a must in survival. Very insightful article. :)

True

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thank you sis.
We will survive:)

This opis very true as u can easily give up on here if you do not hold on and keep steady. Also making friends and getting out of ones community (comfort zone). Thank u for this , lady!

Have a wonderful day, night, morning,, hahaha coz i dont know what time it is where u are. Bless!.

I saw you in the Cebu Meetup video or wasn't that you?

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Of course it was, am surprised u noticed. God Bless your heart.

Thank you too and stay beautiful

xoxo

Great tips, and very true indeed. Everyone is unique, and sooner or later whatever their talent and passion might be, it will be discovered and rewarded by others. The thing is to be persistent, to interact, and not to be invasive, and everything will fall to its place eventually. Thanks for sharing. We wish you all the best.

Yes and let go and be deep-rootedly you, unshaken by events. Then play and shine

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thanks so much and keep shining.

Power na power steeming on sis!😍😄
Pano maging ikaw sis @sunnylife!😍
Dami ko natutunan sayo sis @sunnylife😘
God bless you always sis😘😘😘

Keep on keeping on

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Salamat po @surpassinggoogle!😍
Pwede pa po ako sumali sa contest mo? Okey lang po ba tagalog?

kaya natin yan sis, im so happy you didnt give up!
kaya mo yan, ang hindi ko kaya mga luto mo haha
kakagutom sis!
ayayay!

Oo sis kayang kaya natin to gorabels lang nang gorabels! Masarap sa sa pakiramdam kahit sa ganung way ay makapagbahagi ako kasi yun lang talaga kaya nang power ko sis!😂😂😂
Maraming salamat sayo sis anjan kapa rin parati😍💟

babaeng itoy nakakamangha
ikaw lang ay magtiwala
lahat tayoy pinagpala
gora lang ng gora , tara! ratsada!
tagumapay iyong matatamasa

so inspiring sissum @sunnylife
❤️❤️❤️

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gora pushh lang ng push!
you belong here too!
Keep shining! xoxo

Tama sissy! 😀😀 Enjoy Steeming! 😀 Love much! 😀💖

Tama talaga. Much love

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Tama talaga kuya Terry 😀 💖 I am very grateful of every little I have. Actually, during my early months of stay I thought of quiting. But because of the awesome people like you and sunnylife who inspired me continue being an awesome Steemian as well. Charot! 😀 The #untalented curriculum helps me to be the Real Me. I may not have the talents to share as I know myself I don't have any. But with #untalented being Me as Steemian is a talent you reveal in the Inner Me. Your Big Love opens the Inner Me that I have this Big Love inside of me. I thanked you so much Kuya Terry for showing how powerful Love is. May @teardrops have so much space and is prepared for the overflowing tear drops right now as I releases the pains, sadness and embracing joy, love and happiness.
Love much! 😀💖

salamat sis, kahit nde nakadalaw sa blog mo huhu
cge push yan sis. Gorabels!!

No worries sissy. 😀 it's because of the growing group. Go go go lang.

Thank you kabayan! ☺️

Welcome on steemit

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Thank you😍

rock n roll kabayan :)

Waaaaa hope so kabayan.. Nangangapa pa ako😅

kaya yan, tyaga lang sis basahin mo yong link sa taas
story ng lost bug, relate ka dyan hehehehe
join ka d2 kung gusto mo: https://discord.gg/DnpSuVe

Yup sis... Thank you😘

parang chat channel lang yan sis.
patulog nako :) hehe bukas ulet.
have fun enjoy lang:)

Ok sis.. Hatinggabi na pala😁

pwede po ba sumali sa community nyo po?

yes lahat pede tara naaaa
open yan sa lahat.

Oh yeah. You nailed it, sistah! LABYU!!!!

Love you

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One love <3

Thank you for your LOVE!

We are not going to give up!
xoxo

Good reminder!

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thanks so much not easy but we are all going to make it!
have a lovely day

Very simple post yet contains all the "human", awesomeness, all the sceneries, everything. You are sweet like sugar and a rarity. You are real and its all sweet. You play and you shine and that's even the real wealth. Steemit is also about opportunities and this e.g simple real posts like this is what draws people in

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Thank you for the @teardrops token
You inspired us as well Terry.
I know you work so hard also searching, helping and newbies
I am one of them. Thank you for your love.

Stay strong xoxo

xoxo

@sunnylife I feel your post. I just started 72 days ago. Patience is a great virtue. I feel steemit has a lot to offer,we just got to be patient. I feel like the Filipino steemian community is very compact and helpful to each other. Thanks @surpassinggoogle @purepinay

Thanks keep steeming and enjoy it at the same time:)
You will be fine, because you belong here:)

This is such a great post and it came just when I needed it @sunnylife. I hope I also get to have Big Guardians of the Planet Steemit Galaxy guide and support me as well (you used Big Bears). By the way, I can literally feel that you've got a sweet spirit through this post. Nice meeting you friend @sunnylife xoxo

nice meeting yo too beautiful. It's not easy up to now
But we are all going to make it. We belong here, we will survive!
Steem ON!

I started my journey on steemit a few months ago! Since then, I have made 10 posts. To my surprise the response is exceptionally well. The best way to get a lot of limelight is to write from the heart. If you really want to be successful on this platform then do not hurry. Just keep your consistency and one day you will achieve a great height. I just noticed today that my 25 is now 26. Cheers! and thanks for this great motivational post for all the struggling steemians out there.

More Steem Power to you @sunnylife! Haha.

yess that's the spirit!
You are not here to give up! you are here to move forward!
We are going to make it:)

it has been a really beautiful article.I was very happy to see your own opinion of my own, I realized that I was not alone.
I also need the money.it is my intention to register on this site.But I am very pleased to learn new information here.
Thanks for sharing..
@ sunnylife @surpassinggoogle

my pleasure my friend:)
I'm happy that we can help you a bit.
Enjoy your journey. YOU belong here:)
Cheers!

Don't forget about the people completely wasting their time on the other social media networks.

ohh they wil be fine when the right time comes:)

Reading through this less voluminous but juicy content gives me hope...i have learnt to stay on my lane, avoid double crossing and trying to be better than the older stemians, it will only lead to frustration and heartbreak even worst than a Lovers own...one thing i've learnt from steemit is endurance, patience, your time will certainly come but you dont need to try to surpass your shawdows..thank you for this post.

Im' glad can help you a bit.
don't give up and you will be fine for sure:)
Keep steeming.

this a nice info.i like this sweet post...i think these theme very bright..thanks for your comprative post..
thanks a lot..
sunnylife (60)..

you arevery much welcome my friend.
enjoy your stay.

Needed this great read! As someone who's just starting this is a really encouraging and empowering post!! Thank you!!

you are very much welcome::)
glad can help somebody out there.

This is really a nice post and helpful especially for the newbie like me here in steemit. thanks for sharing maam :D Godbless

no probem maam. enjoy lang tayo:)

Great article and an inspiring message to many here on Steemit. Getting settled on Steemit can certainly be daunting but it is well worth the effort. There are many communities that are forming and becoming a part of it has certainly helped in getting settled...

yes exactly, we just need to be patient and focus.
Hope you are having a great time:)

Embedded in you Steemit survival kit are packets of sound advice that will ensure the anyone new to Steemit will remain focus. After all, FOCUS means; Follow One Course Until Successful. Thanks very immensely @sunnylife

ohhh I love that FOCUS thanks for sharing.:)
Keep steeming.

thanks for this huge advice. I'm a newbie here on steemit and i'm struggling. But i'd follow your advice, write from my heart and be myself. thank you

stay beautiful. I'm sure you can do it.
Keep steeming!

It was a beautiful writing. I felt alone before and invited my friends. I feel happier now, because Steemite is spending time with them.

than u keep going!
dont give up

I agree with you. We do not need a race at steem. we must enjoy. We are enjoying enjoying other social media, it is the only thing we have to do here. Life is too short to think of money. We must always enjoy it. @sunnylife

that is true, enjoy t he journey and have some fun:)
not easy but we all going to make it!

upon reading this,you gave me strength to keep going, all you says is really happened and I feel it now... only one thing I know, don't give up and continue what you did as long as you happy on what you are doing, pinay tayo...di basta basta sumusuko.

walang filipinan sumusuko!
kaya natin yan!! WE belong here!!
gorables sis!

sugod Gabriela Silang....haha we are sweet fighter

Thanks for Nice story very excellent your post

This is a must read especially to those who are struggling and not earning much here in Steemit. Sometimes, tears get shed because of the efforts we've put but still earn cents. But as you said, this is not the end so we must keep on moving. The road may be tough but we should endure.

Thank you for this inspirational post, @sunnylife! :)

I know how you feel..
keep steeming cos you belong here:)
don't give up!

There is light at the end of the tunnel...

thank you my friend:)
steem on and dont give up!

Very well-written! I'm still new on steemit too, just 1 month in and I'm still having difficulty in understanding some terms and how this platform works. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, I am not alone in feeling lost in this vast world. :)

you are not alone, I'm still lost.
But on your way...you will discover it yourself.
Believe and keep shining. xoxo

Nice post! keep on good work @sunnylife.

ok great:) thnx

Best post have read today

thanks so sweet of you:)
steem on!

pak na pak!! im belong here !!
go go go tayo sis walang bibitaw :-)

yes we belong here!
walang bibitaw!!

Hello village girl, that post so cute and motivating for new and not new steemians.

True, our path here in steemit is equal to the path of life, with ups and downs. Nothing is so easy and nothing is so difficult. Adversities are there to annoy us, but we are the ones who decide how to manage them with each step we take. With each step we walk, we build our way.

It is true, here too there are unkind beings, unjust actions too. During my life I cried seas because of the injustices not only against me, but also those that affect everyone. One day our boy Terry told me: "We can not change everyone, but we can improve this world". He taught me by his example and this strengthened me. I apply this now, I contribute my grain of sand to improve myself and this world, at the same time that I do not let negative influences hamper this desicion.

As humans, sometimes the fuel runs out, but there is always a wonderful reserve that is faith, love and perseverance. We also have another wonderful source, those rays of light that transmit bright beings. Drinking with thirst these inspiring sparks are part of our integral growth here. Shared so that others can drink it and take a bath of light.

what beautiful message my friend.
You got it right, sometimes we just need to shake those negative vibes around.
instead filled it up with positivity.

hope all is well.
tc always xoxo

It is very helful like us, like struggling people on steemit.

glad to help:)
you belong here, don't give up!

"RUN YOUR OWN RACE, BECAUSE YOU BELONG HERE"

This, right here. This is it.

This sentence is the best advice ever to any steemian. I can't think of something better. Something that will stay with me from now on.

Thank you VERY much for sharing.

thanks for your kind comment.
yessss, everybody belongs here, you and others:)
Enjoy your journey my friend:)

You are right about steemit being a marathon and not a sprint👍@sunnylife

thanks jordan!
Keep steeming:)

Dear @sunnylife. Maraming salamat po sa post na ito. This is a gem post in a journey of steemian. Thanks a lot. Xx

maraming pong salamat den sana ay nakatulong kahit kaunti.
mabuhay t ayong lahat!
xoxo

Mam ne resteem ko para mabasa ng lahat. I was deeply touch. It speaks to my heart. Love to you

salamat po maam na marami
kaya natin, kakayanin.

Thank you very much for the inspiring story, I will strive more , learn more, be more patient, listen with heart with every story. Sometimes I got zero points in my post and I feel very disappointed and sad, now I'm trying to be more better , write with heart and being true to myself in my blog . Thank you very much for your heart full advice.

don't worry much the income now, it will come later.
Make friends, connect, share from your heart.
and have fun! You will be fine.
Cheers!

The beautiful and talented @sunnylife.
Always helping others!!
Bear Hugs!! x0x0x

thanks for dropping by Papa bear.
For all your LOVE and support
your sunny lost bug in sthe steemian forest
xoxo hugs backk

Love you sis this os what every steemian needs to know specially newbies like us. We have to keep our motivation up to the roof. I love it when you say this is a COMMUNITY... yeah I realized I really need to get along with people and stay with positivity

yes sis, you belong here!
just be yourself
stay happy always.

awwww...mejo naiyak po ako sa may bandang gitna...love this post po nakarelate lng po ng todo mam @sunnylife :-D hehehe God bless po <3

hala kaya po yan maam kakayanin.
push lang wag bibigay

Nice blog sisy and miss you.

miss u too hope all is well

@sunnylife great article and surely a constant reminder for us to focus on the character being developed, friendship created and unlimited learning. Steaming on for life

yess u got it! keep going, steeming!
enjoy your journey:)

Thank you @sunnylife! I am new to Steemit and this post feels like the "warning", "house rules and regulations" for newbies to really read. I have also read your lost bug in the steemian forest, and I am really feel all your struggles and can relate to some of them. It is such a heartwarming and tear-inducing post. Thank you with all my tears. - @raquelita

ohh sis you are very much welcome:)
thank you for takingt ime to read the bug story hehe funny jologs story haha

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