Reach out to the Right crowd

Finally she has fallen asleep!!

It means I sat while having dinner without rushing,I took a nice warm bath,I was able to do my pending chores and most importantly—I can start writing for this blog number 3..Yehey!
If I get to submit this tonight before this little panda asked for her midnight snack,Please congratulate me fellow Steemians..(hahaha)

Have you ever doubted yourself based on what others have told you?
Can’t blame you,because I did.
You will meet a crowd that will laugh at your slightest mistake.People that will make you doubt yourself.Stop you from taking your first step towards your goals.They will tell you that you are not good enough.
Then Stop.
Stop from listening to those kind of commentaries.Turn away from their envious heart.Do not let them feel good about themselves by letting them crush your spirit.Refrain from sharing them your plans especially your dreams.You are speaking to a pack of wolves.There’s nothing you can say that will make sense to them.Some of them will attack you instead.Keep their hands off your steering wheel.
Take control of your life.
Reach out to the right crowd.
There are people out there who are willing to listen and will give you advice but will let you decide on your own.
They will be willing to share their knowledge to you hoping it’ll help you come up with something good.And if you succeed they will be genuinely happy for you.
You will get support from them instead of prejudice.
So if anyone have ever told you any of these,
“Hahaha what kind of grammar is that?”
“You don’t fit in that job,apply on this job instead.”
“How can you be an author Ryl? Did you study journalism?”
“You misspelled this and that also..haha”
“You can’t write a cookbook.”
“You can’t run that kind of business..”
“You need me,you can’t do it on your own.”
“No one will give your daughter a cent because she doesn’t look sick enough on that photo.”

If you have been hearing these kind of comments and more,do yourself a favor and STOP..STOP LISTENING TO THEM.
Because if I haven’t, I wouldn’t be here sharing these thoughts with you.My daughter haven’t gotten the help that she needs.I would have been sobbing quietly and telling myself that
“I am not good enough and that my children deserves a better mom”
I stopped fearing rejection and mistakes.
I pulled myself up and embraced imperfections.
This is what I love about STEEMIT,it is a platform that is full of positivity,transparency,honesty,respect and support to one another.
This is Freedom.

I’m not saying that those people you heard these negative comments from are evil its just that sometimes people don’t know how to deal with your issues in a helpful way...all I’m saying is—They’re simply not the right crowd.