A really nice post.
It's different for every relationship.
I had a long term relationship with a call girl.. (and we ended up having a business together in the adult industry for 3 years, with no negative consequences from 'the job' - whatsoever.)
For us Love - and sex was never connected .
From our perspective, sex was playtime for adults, and that's all.
Our hearts were not connected to our bits !
We were blissfully happy, until we left the business, and within 2 years, we had split up.
That's really interesting. I was a camgirl for awhile--maybe I'll end up doing it again if I need the money. But it was kind of strange. I didn't physically do anything because it was all with a screen in between, but my boyfriend never wanted to be in the house when I was doing it...
Yeah, I just wired differently I guess. Most males (in my experience), have a real double standard when sex, or sexuality is involved.
They will happily mentally undress a pretty girl in a short skirt, walking down the street, but go ballistic at the thought of another man doing that to you.
All a bit silly, if you ask me.
My girlfriend and I have great fun shagging on cam !
Had the account for well over 8 years now - Made good £.
(and it's a job you can do while traveling.)
One of the strange things with camming ( a business tip for you, if you do it again) - don't use the mic - say your mic is screwed or something - type - takes longer and they are paying by the second... ( I presume).
When we do it, I type as 'the girl' - a man talking as the woman - make 20 -30% more...
When you are typing keep it as 'porny' as you can.
It's kinda funny, if I don't do anything else online for a few day, and only talk as my girl fiend - when I sit down to a comp again, I find myself having to mentally shake off 'the horny girl, persona'.
It's a very weird feeling.
Keep checking in on my posts -
I am going to post a some webcam chats, as post topic - (not sure when - I have a lot of material to work on)
you will see what I mean, though about the style of 'talking'